Wife Finds Out About Husband’s Coworkers’ “Game”, Can’t Even Look At Him Anymore – Bored Panda

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Though, for some people, it happens on a regular basis, and sometimes it gets pretty wild.This redditor shared that her husband, a senior partner at a banking firm, spends time with his co-workers after work quite often, which has led to some pretty serious bad behavior, presented as fun drunken antics in the past. The woman opened up about one of such antics that has left her feeling hurt and violated, though her husband believed it was something they should be able to laugh at.Share iconImage credits: Oscar Söderlund / Unsplash (not the actual photo)Share iconImage credits: Chris Yang / Unsplash (not the actual photo)Share iconImage credits: cottonbro studio / Pexels (not the actual photo)Image credits: Adept-Pepper-5859It’s not uncommon for people’s work life to become intertwined with their personal one. And it’s also not unheard of for that to have a negative impact on their relationships, especially those with their significant others. The long hours at the office, constant talks about their “work spouse”, or spending the little free time they have with their co-workers might become too difficult for people’s partners to be supportive of; or even tolerate, for that matter.While “spending time with co-workers” didn’t make it to the list of the most common things couples fight about, the “amount of quality time spent together” made it to the top ten, according to a YouGov’s survey from 2022. Bearing that in mind, it’s not surprising that some people might feel bitter if their significant other decides to spend more time with the individuals they see at work every day rather than their own partner.But, as the OP’s example shows, sometimes, it’s not about the amount of time spent, but rather about the activities that time was spent for. The aforementioned survey found that friendships or social activities outside of the relationship were a common reason for fighting, too, and it’s safe to assume that when social activities entail sneaking out with one’s spouse’s underwear in their hand, it doesn’t make the relationship any better.Share iconImage credits: Hrant Khachatryan / Unsplash (not the actual photo)It’s no secret that setting clear boundaries is important for the well-being of a romantic relationship. For instance, if your partner is getting increasingly close to their work spouse and it’s making you uncomfortable, you might want to express your concern or let them know how that makes you feel and set a boundary you wish your significant other respected.According to the Office Pulse survey from 2017, a whopping 70% of business professionals at that time had—or have had—a work spouse, marking an increase from 65% in 2010 and 32% in 2006. The survey also found that quite a few people with such spouses have taken their relationship a tad too far, with 7% admitting that they have “definitely crossed the line”, and an additional 6% saying that they “may have crossed the line”.Whether or not there’s reason to worry about work spouses, many people still do – 7% of male and 2% of female business professionals say that their actual spouse is jealous of their work spouse. Additionally, 11% of males and 5% of females feel the need to hide their work spouse from the actual one.Talking about boundaries and people’s relationship inside and outside of work, BACP-registered counsellor and therapist, Lindsay George told The Independent that like most preferences and dynamics in relationships, the boundaries that work best for people also differ from couple to couple.The expert pointed out that when a work spouse comes into the picture, it’s normal to feel a little jealous or threatened. However, if you feel this way, it might be best to try talking about it with your partner. “Explain how their relationship is affecting you and that you need help understanding it better,” George told The Independent. “Ask for reassurance. Find out why they like spending time together; do they give each other emotional support? Do they share common interests? And if so, what are these?”Even though the OP’s problem with her husband’s co-workers wasn’t a work spouse or the threat such a person might present, explaining how their relationship—and the games they play—is affecting her might not be a bad idea. Some netizens in the comments even suggested that the woman should reevaluate her relationship altogether.By entering your email and clicking Subscribe, you’re agreeing to let us send you customized marketing messages about us and our advertising partners. You are also agreeing to our Privacy Policy. Thank you! You’ve successfully subscribed to newsletters!Anyone can write on Bored Panda. Start writing! Follow Bored Panda on Google News! Follow us on Flipboard.com/@boredpanda! 20 48 20 48Link copied!ShareLink copied!Share Writer, BoredPanda staff A writer here at Bored Panda, I am a lover of good music, good food, and good company, which makes food-related topics and feel-good stories my favorite ones to cover. Passionate about traveling and concerts, I constantly seek occasions to visit places yet personally unexplored. I also enjoy spending free time outdoors, trying out different sports—even if I don’t look too graceful at it—or socializing over a cup of coffee. Writer, BoredPanda staff A writer here at Bored Panda, I am a lover of good music, good food, and good company, which makes food-related topics and feel-good stories my favorite ones to cover. Passionate about traveling and concerts, I constantly seek occasions to visit places yet personally unexplored. I also enjoy spending free time outdoors, trying out different sports—even if I don’t look too graceful at it—or socializing over a cup of coffee. Author, BoredPanda staff As a Visual Editor at Bored Panda, I indulge in the joy of curating delightful content, from adorable pet photos to hilarious memes, all while nurturing my wanderlust and continuously seeking new adventures and interests—sometimes thrilling, sometimes daunting, but always exciting! Author, BoredPanda staff As a Visual Editor at Bored Panda, I indulge in the joy of curating delightful content, from adorable pet photos to hilarious memes, all while nurturing my wanderlust and continuously seeking new adventures and interests—sometimes thrilling, sometimes daunting, but always exciting! She should let the other wives know what went on, then have them all bring a pair of their husbands’ underwear to hang up in the office and play a “Whose is Whose” game of their own.RIGHT? This is a violation when done without permission of the spouses. I’m not judging ANY WOMAN who gives her husband permission to do this; among consenting adults anything is fair game provided everyone is safe – but this? Is a HUGE NO-NO. I’d be planning a divorce as this is just the tip of a very murky iceberg…As a man, I suggest that that is not invasive enough. The wives should take d*** pics, play “whose is whose.”The wives should take dickpics of their husbands and do a ‘who’s who’ party with that. See how the husbands feel.I would suggest packing his skid mark tightie whities in a lunch box and telling him you made something for him to share with everyone.So hilarious. And so easily done. They might like it, however…If he didn’t want to ask his wife to borrow her underwear, then he knew it was an issue and he should have known better.She should let the other wives know what went on, then have them all bring a pair of their husbands’ underwear to hang up in the office and play a “Whose is Whose” game of their own.RIGHT? This is a violation when done without permission of the spouses. I’m not judging ANY WOMAN who gives her husband permission to do this; among consenting adults anything is fair game provided everyone is safe – but this? Is a HUGE NO-NO. I’d be planning a divorce as this is just the tip of a very murky iceberg…As a man, I suggest that that is not invasive enough. The wives should take d*** pics, play “whose is whose.”The wives should take dickpics of their husbands and do a ‘who’s who’ party with that. See how the husbands feel.I would suggest packing his skid mark tightie whities in a lunch box and telling him you made something for him to share with everyone.So hilarious. And so easily done. They might like it, however…If he didn’t want to ask his wife to borrow her underwear, then he knew it was an issue and he should have known better.We’re also on Instagram and tumblr 1comment 25 points 0comments 23 points 0comments 19 points 12comments 30 points 3comments 23 points 3comments 31 points 9comments 35 points 9comments 39 points 2comments 27 points 1comment 27 points

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